boyfriends

[savvylover112]

Ok I am the only girl i know around here who is not confident with guys

I've never had a boyfriend

I've never been noticed by a guy or anything like that and I just feel like no one will ever like me any one else have this problem??

I'm just so confused by the way guys work any guys to give a bit of input here??

[~*Rach*~]

You really shouldn't be worried about having a boyfriend or "getting noticed" at this age.

Who cares if you've never had a boyfriend?

You're only a kid once. And being a kid doesn't mean going out and dating and having a boyfriend all the time.

Enjoy being a kid. You've got your WHOLE life for a boyfriend.

[savvylover112]

i guess your right but like how old would you consider not being a kid any more?

[~*Rach*~]

Psh. I don't think anyone ever "grows up". I think everyone always stays a kid.

What does it matter though?

Enjoy being a kid. Don't be counting down the days until you're "grown up".

If a boy notices you and likes you, great. If you stay single for a while, that's even BETTER. You don't need to be dealing with heartbreak and dumb boys and "love" at a young age.

Having guys as friends is one thing. I personally LOVE guys as friends. I have quite a few.

But even though I have plenty of crushes, I don't want a boyfriend.

Enjoy life. Enjoy being friends with guys. If something more happens, then that's great, but if it doesn't, that's even better. 

[pony-horse]

psh im 14 and a half and never been asked out. but dont stress about it. listen to everything agony aunt rach says. she is, after all, a genius

[~*Rach*~]

Why thank you dearie. 

[pony-horse]

you're very welcome honey

but it's true - you're so blunt in your advice so it's always true

[~*Rach*~]

Ah yes indeed. Blunt is the perfect word for me. 

[pony-horse]

blunt .... and sarcastic

[~*Rach*~]

And stubborn and clumsy.

Basically what you are. 

WE'RE TWINS! 

[pony-horse]

yeah!

except i love to organize my crap....

[~*Rach*~]

Pshhh...twins don't have to be EXACTLY alike. 

[pony-horse]

lol fine fine ....

its seriously odd tho how alike you and i are! except i was born in January XD a little far away from auguest

do you happen to have long-ish dark brown hair?

[~*Rach*~]

My hair is short, but I cut it a while ago. I'm letting it grow out again though. I used to have it really long. I wanted a break though and chopped it all off last summer(well, above my shoulders anyway) and have liked having it short. I want to see what it'll look like long now though.

But yes, it is dark brown. 

And very very curly. Yours is curly too, right?

Creeeeeeeeeeepy. xD

It is odd though like you said...we are very very alike. Scary alike. 

[pony-horse]

yes its curly!!!! wow!

and you have glasses too right???